When I Die: 6 Things A Financial Educator Says To Do To Prepare Your Loved Ones

  • Estate Planning
  • Illinois Probate Law
when I die 6 things a financial educator says to do to prepare your loved ones | estate and probate legal group

After your death, your loved ones will already be grieving. The last thing they should face is confusion, court delays, and unanswered questions about where assets are, who is in charge, or what happens next.

That’s exactly what probate looks like when planning is incomplete or outdated.

By reviewing beneficiary designations, powers of attorney, and executor information, you do one of two powerful things:

  • You reduce what must go through probate, or

  • You prepare your loved ones to navigate probate efficiently and confidently

Both outcomes matter.

Preparing your will and estate plan is a huge step in helping your loved ones when you’re gone. But it’s also important to let them know where to find this and other important information. We recommend you have a ‘When I Die‘ folder and let at least one person you trust know where to find this information.

Prepare Your When I Die Folder

As you gather your estate planning documents, it’s important to keep this information in a secure location. It’s equally important to let your loved ones know you have this information compiled and where it is kept. Financial educator Tess Waresmith says there are 6 things to do to prepare your loved ones to handle your estate. She calls it the ‘When I Die‘ folder. But please know that this information can be used when you become hurt or incapacitated. That is why it’s important to prepare now.

6 Items to have in this folder are:

  1. Legal Documents. These documents can include your will, power of attorney and healthcare directive.
  2. Insurance Information. Keep copies of life, health, home and any other insurance policies. Also, include the contact information for each policy.
  3. Financial Information. Include your bank and investment accounts and any loans or credit cards in the folder. This allows your loved ones to easily close the necessary accounts when you are gone.
  4. Important Contacts. Compile a list of family members, your attorney, financial advisor and even your employer. Any person who plays an important role in your daily life should be included in this list.
  5. Passwords and Digital Access. Create one document that includes all email, social media, and online account information. If you do not want to print this document, give someone you trust access to Password Manager.
  6. Specific Wishes for Funeral or Burial. You may include a pre-written obituary or at least what you want to be included in it. You may also note your funeral wishes (burial or cremation) and how you want to be remembered.

Clear beneficiary designations can keep assets out of court entirely. Clear documents and communication ensure that if probate is necessary, your executor isn’t left guessing – or fighting with family members – while deadlines and legal responsibilities pile up.

This isn’t about paperwork.
It’s about sparing your family unnecessary stress, delays, and expense at a time when they’re least equipped to handle it.

Tax season gives you the perfect window to do this work thoughtfully, while everything is already in front of you.

👉 Don’t Wait: Schedule an estate and probate review.
An experienced estate planning and probate attorney can confirm that your beneficiary designations, documents, and overall plan work together – so your loved ones are protected, informed, and not left navigating the probate court unprepared.

An experienced estate planning attorney can help you prepare the legal documents and remind you what should be included in your ‘When I Die’ folder.

Work With An Oak Brook Estate Planning Attorney

An Illinois estate planning lawyer can help you build and organize your estate plan. Consulting an experienced attorney in the Chicago area can give you protection and peace of mind. Contact the Estate & Probate Legal Group at 630-864-5835.

A short review now can save your family months and even years of frustration later.

Illinois Probate – FAQs

Does everything go through probate in Illinois?

No. Assets with properly named beneficiaries – such as retirement accounts, life insurance, and payable-on-death accounts – generally pass outside probate. Probate is usually required when assets are titled solely in the deceased person’s name with no beneficiary or trust in place.

How long does probate take in Illinois?

Most Illinois probate cases take 9 to 18 months, even when everything goes smoothly. Disputes, missing documents, or unclear beneficiary designations can significantly extend that timeline and increase costs.

Can estate planning really make probate easier for my family?

Yes. Even when probate can’t be avoided entirely, clear beneficiary designations, updated documents, and an informed executor can:

  • Reduce court involvement

  • Speed up administration

  • Minimize family conflict

  • Lower legal and administrative expenses

Probate is hardest when families are unprepared – not simply because probate exists.